It's obviously a baffling question for every girl who needs their crush guy to be loved: Is there some specific moment or event that makes a guy suddenly decide "Yes, I think I love her"? Well, the answer isn't clear -cut, but there are some general principles which suggest that. "Men have certain innate needs from their heart towards love-life that must be met before they truly feel connected to a girl," says Paul Dobransky, MD, author of The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love. "When a guy realizes, consciously, that she is ideal on all these levels, that's when he'll commit."
Its a real hassle to men to decide which girl to love when he feels multiple crushes at certain time,..but he manages to love one, the best suit for his life with exempting otherone's by certain reasons according to his mindset.The fact is that relationships are hard to establish brighter. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and it takes a 100% commitment from both persons to make it a success. Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though something is missing.
However, though the odds are not very good for a better relationships, healthy and long lasting relationships definetly possible and even proven by many people. What secrets do they possess? The answer is that they all work hard at their relationship. They made a decision of choosing to love their mate rather than relying on the "warm and fuzzy" feelings, which everyone knows will fade the day or other.There are "Hundreds of things you can do to better your relationship". To help get you headed for a better relationship, I have chosen the following ways to build, strengthen, and enhance your relationship.Think of a thing like choosing a car. You pick out your favorite model, color, and features that you believe are best for you. After driving your car for a time being, you realize that perhaps you should have purchased a larger car, or that maybe the leather seats would have been better, or with a sunroof on hot sunny days would have been better. However, it is now too lat e so you choose to keep your car and make it work. It is the same for any relationships i.e a relationship between friends or lovers,etc. Not everything will be perfect in life, and there will be major obstacles to overcome, but ur work is to try for perfection for your partner to satisfy and establish a better relationship. This has to been inner myth for a relationship in both beings to a better relationship.When couples first get together, everything is new and exciting. They overlook the little annoying things the other person does. However, after time, the nagging starts, instead of hearing, "You look beautiful," they might hear "Why are you wearing that shirt?"If this sounds in your relationship, first, two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place. Then together, make a commitment to start over. The truth is, both of you will hav e to work on this. It will not automatically be easy but it is possible. Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past, and then start over with a new feel. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the unimportant things aside. It will take some time so be patient.Loving touch of a parent can quickly pull the child through a health crisis as said generally by doctors. It's the same for relationships. Playing with your mate's hair, rubbing their hand, a soft kiss on the neck, a soft pat on the leg or giving a gentle back rub will make a huge difference in how your mate responds to you. When was the last time you walked up to your mate for no reason and without saying a word, affectionately placed a kiss on their neck? This is not in a sexual way, but an affectionate way. There is a difference. The next time the two of you are sitting in the car, at the grocery story, or standing in line at the theater, quietly reach over and take their hand. Do not be surprised if you get a strange look of curiosity the first time!As important as it is to spend quality time together, it is equally important to give each other time to do something they like.If you know that you and your mate have proven differences in opinion on certain subjects, avoid those subjects. As an example, if you are a Republican and your mate is a Democrat, politics should probably be avoided. As the two of you identify new topics that could cause a debate session, stop the conversation before it even gets started.When couples are having problems in a relationship, communication is the first thing to stop. It is often easier to just be quiet than to get mad. When rebuilding relationships, just as communication was the first to stop, it now needs to be the first to start. This will require that both individuals let down attitude to land. Healing in the relationship cannot start until you talk. Make an agreement that you will talk about anything and everyth ing and that you will listen, really listen. That does not mean that you will agree with everything, which is perfectly fine. However, if you do not agree, do not yell, rather, the two of you need to calmly discuss the issue and together, work out a solution. This is hard work but within a very short time, you will both feel much better, individually and as a coupleIntimacy and passion in relationships is not only important but also healthy. Couples need to enjoy being together in an intimate way. When relationships are troubled, the last thing either person wants is to be sexual or passionate with each other. However, this is a part of the healing and rebuilding of the relationship and although it might be awkward in the beginning, it is crucial. Make your intimate time together special. Surprise your mate with a warm bubble bath, lighted candles, soft music, and a bottle of wine, or reserve a nice romantic evening at a local hotel to include a wonderful candlelit dinner,an d a beautiful room.Give your mate gifts "just because." These do not have to be expensive whatsoever. For example, one woman had a miniature dish collection in her kitchen. Her husband came home and told her that he had a gift for her. Holding out her hand, he gently placed in her hand a miniature porcelain cup with her name neatly written in blue ink. She knew that this cup probably cost no more than $2.00 but the thought that he would take the time to find something she enjoyed, was worth $1 million. The small gifts packed with thought are far more cherished.
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